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| 1. | Make sure she understands the perils of teenage sex. Most girls regret it. Sexually transmitted diseases are prevalent. Early sex can physically harm girls and has been shown to lead to cervical cancer. Teenage sex often damages self-esteem. Pregnancy. |
| 2. | Make sure she knows the impact of alcohol and drugs. For instance: 30% to 100% more alcohol enters a girl's blood stream than a boy's. Alcohol and drugs decrease inhibitions and can increase sexual desire. Alcohol and drugs change the behavior of her cohorts, too. Even a good friend may take advantage of her. |
| 3. | Get her involved in sports or other afternoon activities. |
| 4. | Get her involved in sports or other afternoon activities. Be aware of what is going on in her school and other places she frequents. It will be a relief to her that you know. |
| 5. | De-mystify the boys she is around by inviting them into your home for family time. A little spinach in his teeth can work wonders. |
| 6. | Continue to offer her hugs. |
| 7. | Make sure she has good female and male role models. |
| 8. | Communicate your values to her. She listens more than you think. |
| 9. | Spend time with her. And spend most of the time listening. |
"There is much more to raising a girl than there used to be," says Jack Hoos, publisher of DAUGHTERS Newsletter. "But parents who pay attention can anticipate trouble and help their daughters navigate challenges like social pressure, changing body shape, low self-esteem, boy obsession, sibling squabbles, depression, and falling grades."
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